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  1. August 20, 2013
    Carmen says

    Wow. This is good advice for Amanda.

  2. August 20, 2013
    Sarah says

    When my sister broke up wth her boyfriend of four years, she missed him terribly too and questioned her decision. I reminded her of a book she had read on the brain and how humans are creatures of habit. She was used to her bf being around and she had to break that habit, which was tough. It’s difficult to quit something cold turkey, whether it be a boyfriend, facebook, or other habits (like drinking coffee!). :) The book mentioned something about endorphins and our habits and how breaking a habit forces the brain to “rewire”. I wish I could remember what the book was called… It gave an interesting perspective!

    I like Amanda’s advice! And I totally love the blog! :)

  3. August 22, 2013
    Nicole says

    Holy cow, this. is. my. life. Down to every detail… 1.5 years with the current, college senior, new crush. I really needed to hear this, too. Thank you!

  4. September 12, 2013

    My daughter is a junior in college, and we talk about serious relationships while in college. In my opinion it’s never a good idea to get serious with a guy because you are so young, and you have so much life ahead of you. You have plenty of time for relationships and the commitment that comes with it. You seem to have become accustom to your boyfriend being at your beck and call, but you want to have fun too. There is nothing wrong with you being a senior in college and having fun doing what college kids do, but is it fair to string him along for the ride blindfolded? I know you said you would never cheat on your boyfriend, but in actuality you have. If you are texting and talking to another guy, it’s called emotional cheating. Because you are giving your time and attention to another person while your boyfriend hangs in the ballots. You may feel a bit ackward without your boyfriend which is understandable because you have spent so much time with each other, but if you are not feeling the way he feels about you perhaps you may want to give serious thought about parting your ways for a short break. You may even find that he is the one for you after all. Time away from a situation sometimes clears our vision the more. I wish you success with your relationships rather it be with present boyfriend or new boyfriend.

  5. November 9, 2013
    marty says

    haha totally stumbled on a site for girls…but as you said that youre a freelancer, you should make a unisex blog, i bet it’d help for all of the 20-somethings from a girls perspective (for us guys)

  6. December 10, 2013
    Hannah says

    This sounds exactly like me. 1.5 years with my boyfriend, in college and new crush. I feel like I’m moving on with my life and making new friends and I feel he just isn’t fitting in with my life anymore. I feel like I’m in so deep. We’ve discussed moving in together and I’m about to get a new place but I feel as if I would be screwing him over if I were to break up with him now. I feel like I really like this new guy and I’m scared. I don’t want to hurt anyone but I know that if I stay I wont be as happy as I could be.

  7. December 30, 2013

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  9. March 16, 2014
    Maria says

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  10. April 20, 2014
    Shelley Dustin says

    Me & my boyfriend was planning to get married last month, just last week we had some argument that made him get angry on me just because of the argument, he said we will not be married again and the next day he left me and we broke up. I still loved him and I wanted him to marry me, for me to get him back i had no choice than to contacted dr.marnish@ yahoo. com to help me and he helped me to bring my lover back to me so we can continue our plan to be married. he came back after 3 days
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  12. October 15, 2014
    Ellie says

    Wow, this was exactly the answer I was looking for! I have the exact same situation going on right now and this just made my life so much easier! Thank you!!!

  13. October 8, 2017

    So my boyfriend is great and he has the same personality we are always hanging out but it seems like I’m not enough recently he has been talking to this girl and he even asked for pics. AND HE GOT THEM. Of course like any guy he denied it and of course a girl like me I didn’t want to loose him. So I forgot about but know he hasnt txted me in a while so now I’m paranoid that he has been seeing some other girls. So later I went to a football game with a friend and my boy BFF was there. So we hung out for most of the night and I just had a feeling when I was around him. I thought it was nothing Bc it happend a lot. But then he texted me after and we were getting close. Then he wanted me to break up with my current boyfriend to go out with him. And I had no idea what to do. He is still pressuring me and I told him that my boyfriend would lash out because he is a softy. So 30 minutes ago he asked me out on a date WHAT DO I DO WITH THEM!!! Please help me out.

  14. April 30, 2018
    Caro says

    Hi Amanda. So here’s my story. I have been with my BF for about 2 and a half years and a little over a month ago I met this new guy that I have fell head over heels with. We met through my job and the second we made eye contact I had massive butterfly’s and I haven’t felt that way since I started dating my current boyfriend. We ended up trading business cards and he added me on Instagram. He saw that I had a boyfriend and respected it but one day he texted me about business and the convo eventually led to flirting. Long story short, we hooked up, twice. I felt horrible because my BF is the most loyal and honest person on this earth and I let him down. So I ended it with the other guy. I wrote him a text on. Why I can’t continue this, no response back. I then had to leave the country for over a week for work and had some time to think what do I really want. I couldn’t stop thinking about him, to the point where I was awake all night praying that he texts me. We didn’t unfollow each other on Instagram so he see’s my posts. Then one night I got a text “I miss you” and heart sunk. It was him. From there we started slowly texting back and forth and he FaceTimed me a few days after. But in the back of my head I know it’s weong, I have a BOYFRIEND!!! I just got back home two days ago and I was with my boyfriend the whole day. I even posted a pic of us on my IG story. The other guy saw it and texted me that he unfollowed me in IG because he can’t see that anymore. So what do I do? A few hours ago by and I sit my boyfriend down and I tell him that I need a break, out of the blue. My boyfriend thought I was playing some cruel prank at first and then realized I was serious. I told him I just need some time to think and that I am not in a good place right now. He was so hurt, I saw the tears roll down his face because he didn’t know what just happened. I texted the other guy and told him and he was in shock too but of course happy. Now it’s a new day and I woke up 2 hours before my alarm because there is so much going on in my mind right now. Did I make the right decision? Do I stay with the guy who is madly in love with me and that I have been with for almost 3 years or do I try something new? I’m just so afraid that if I do make this decision say it’s the wrong one and I lose my best friend for some other guy who just ended up being a fling. My heart can’t take that. What’s your advice?


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