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  1. August 13, 2016
    Aimee says

    This actually made me laugh. I remember back when I was a freshman in college I was getting flirty vibes from my brother’s best friend and I asked my brother if he would feel comfortable with me hanging out with him. My brother’s response “I don’t care, but he doesn’t like you so whatever.” And here we are 6 and a half years later, still happily dating! I still laugh thinking about that comment. I guess he really didn’t like me, huh?

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  2. August 16, 2017
    Nikki says

    Hey guys, my name is nikki I’m 14 yes old and I have a huge problem. I like my best friends brother but he doesnt talk to girls. Apparently he doesn’t like to and my friend (she’s muslim) says that he doesn’t do so because of his religion but I think it’s because he’s shy. He only talks to boys and rarely with girls but for only school related things. What should I do? I have been liking him for a while now and it’s so hard. I go to the same school as him and my best friend. Please help me. This is his junior year and it’s my freshman year. Damn it I like him and I get a heavy feeling in my chest just by thinking of him. I rlly need someone’s help. What can I do?

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  3. December 21, 2017
    Bailey says

    I am 13 and my brothers best friend is 17, recently I have developed kind of a crush on him but I haven’t taken notice of it, my family think I am flirty around him, so I guess they see that I like him, he always comes over and we get him to look after our animals when we r on holiday, recently we went away and I left him a note and he replied and said that if he was younger things would be different between us, meaning it in a relationship type way and that people might think it’s weird if we dated
    Because of the age gap
    He always sends me smirk and wink emojis and in the letter he said that he is he for me and I can tell him things others don’t know.
    He shares his coffe with me every morning. He also has a girlfriend

    I not quite sure what to do?
    Does he like me
    I don’t know how to deal with it ?
    Please help me

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  4. February 18, 2018
    Sandy says

    So recently I have been becoming closer with my brothers best friend while over Christmas, we use to text everyday, then one day while he was away he just stopped, so I asked what was going on and he said reasons that don’t concern me, and we are still not talking and he said things can’t go back to normal, he is also 4 years older than me and has a girlfriend who lives about 2 hours away and they barely see each othe.
    I have know this guy for about 5 years and everyone thinks I like ( in my family) but now I think I love him I am 14 years of age, please help I am stuck

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  5. March 21, 2018
    Breanna Lemay says

    Hey Amanda!
    My name is Breanna and I have a situation…I really like my brothers friend. There not that close but still friends, and his friend started texting me lately acting flirtatious and I’ve been doing the same. I think he likes me and I want to ask but I’m afraid he’ll say no and the relationship we have will be ruined, and that’s the last thing I want. Every time he is over at our house he constantly hangs out around me and wants to to talk but then my brother gets mad and pulls him away, me and my brother don’t have the best relationship right now and I know for a fact if I try to talk to him about this or bring up that I like someone he would walk away and not listen. I’m in quit the pickle and in need of desperate help!

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  6. March 27, 2018
    Ishita says

    Hey im 13 years old and i like my brother’s best friend.The only problem is there’s an age difference of 6 years.He always comes to my house to hang out with my brother.I feel like he see’s me as a sister and he doesn’t like me.It hurts.I don’t know why.He never talks to me either.My mom just says this is just the age.But still i really like him. I’m really shy and an introvert.What do i do?? Please help.Thank you :)

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    1. April 8, 2018
      veronica says

      HI ISHITA, ONE THING I HAVE LEARNT IS THAT AGE IS JUST A NUMBER AND WHEN U WANT SOMETHING U WWILL TRY AS HARD AS YOU CAN TO GET IT, SO IF U REALLY LIKE THIS GUY U WILL TRY.
      IT DOES HURT WHEN U THINK SOMEONE U LIKE DOESNT LIKE U, BUT THERES ONLY ONE WAY TO BE SURE AND THAT IS TO AS MAYBE THIS GUY IS HOLDING BACK BECASUE OF THE AGE AND THE FACT HES YOUR BROTHERS BEST FRIEND OR MAYBE HE IS SHY LIKE U AND DOESNT KNOW HOW TO TELL U, MY SUGGESTION IS MAYBE DROP HINTS AND BE A LITTLE FLIRTY WITH HIM, CREATE TIMES WHEREU HAVE TO HANG OUT WITH HIM OR MAYBE JUST START TO SAY HI TO HIM EVERY NOW AND THEN THEN START FOR CONVERSATIONS AND IF THINGS START TO GET MORE DEEPPER MAYBE HAEV THAT CONVERSATION WITH HIM ABOUT THE WHOLE SITUATION AND IF THERE IS A POSSIBILITY WITH U GUYS BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP, IF HE SAYS NO YEAH IT WILL HURT AND MAYBE A TOUCH EMBARRISING BUT AT LEAST U WILL KNOW AND U CAN START CRUSHING ON SOMONE NEW.
      HOPE THIS HELPS U PLEASE REPLY BACK IF IT DID THNX XX RONI

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  7. June 8, 2018
    Shelly says

    I’m dealing with something similar… i am a sophomore in high school and my brother and his best friend are in 7th grade.. I feel so comfortable around (let’s call the best friend “t”. ) I don’t know why but I can tell him everything that I need to. Things I can’t even tell my own best friend.. why is this? Could anybody tell me

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  8. June 22, 2018
    Brooke says

    I’m Brooke, young 12 girl and my brother is 14 I really like his friends who is even older (15) I don’t know what to do because I have a feeling gen likes me to but I don’t want to hurt my brothers relationship with his friend. And it’s really hard for me to talk to my brother about things. So I’m not to sure what to do.

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