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  1. April 15, 2013
    amanda says

    I think 4 and 5 are biggies with me. I have a difficult time making decisions, even today I went back and forth deciding if I wanted to purchase a dress to wear on my vacation in July.

    I know I need some new things to wear, and I’ve purged my closet of things I don’t wear anymore and donated them, so keeping a timeline perspective helps me make decisions sometimes (“I’ve been waiting months to buy a new dress, I just found one I like, it’s OK to buy it”)

    I also use the ‘how long have you been putting off making this decision’ technique for larger decisions, like moving. I’ve wanted to move out of my apartment to find a better deal (and a better roommate) for months and months. Finally, I found a place I liked and thought “how many times have you found a place you liked but just didn’t bother to make the decision to move. This new place is great, time to make that decision you’ve been wanting to make for months!”

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  2. April 15, 2013
    Rachel says

    I am SO indecisive as well. When it comes to any item I’m buying (a camera, makeup, clothes, etc.) I always read online reviews and try to find photos. Although I do take them with a grain of salt, if EVERYONE raves or complains about something, it’s probably justified!

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  3. April 15, 2013

    such good advice. Sometimes it’s easy to forget what it means to make a “good” decision and this helps.
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  4. April 16, 2013

    Great post! I too become indecisive when everyone’s opinions start to cloud my head. I’ve started doing yoga to clear my head and develop a better understanding of what I really want.

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  5. April 30, 2013
    Hannah says

    The perfect post for my life right now!! Thanks for the great advice, especially about separating wants from fears, that’s a much better way of putting it than saying “go with your heart”. It’ll definetly help me with my big decisions and tackling my indecisiveness:)

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  6. May 12, 2013
    Maggie says

    Thank you for this post! I think i just find decision-making in general difficult–even for everyday things. It can get SOOO frustrating—for me, and the person(s) waiting on my decision. I find it so frustrating that I sometimes pretend the impending decision isn’t there and more often than not, it comes and bites me back.

    For me, getting information on my choices, then organizing that information and as you say, “try on each scenario” in my head helps me.

    Also, I don’t talk to just loved one’s or people close to me about important decisions. Sometimes, these can be the worse people to talk to. A friend of a friend, an acquaintance, a coworker, clients, an “expert,” or even a stranger that has gone through or IS going through a similar situation can be helpful as well.

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    Lauren says

    Oh, I can totally relate to you. I am just as indecisive; and i hate- HATE! having a decision that I can’t resolve quickly. You are either a fight or flight person in decision making. I am definitely a fight person- I like to evaluate the pros & cons- then choose a decision- then I can relax. Sound familiar? :) Great post, though- I needed that.

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