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  1. April 9, 2015
    Angie says

    Love it! I absolutely agree and as always, well said.

  2. April 9, 2015
    Jenna says

    If ever an article needed to be written, it’s this one! Thanks!!

  3. April 9, 2015

    You are SO RIGHT. Rules can take the seed of a great relationship and smash it to pieces!


  4. April 10, 2015
    Bree says

    Couldn’t agree more! I’ve seen so many peoples relationships end before they even really started because of arbitrary “rules”

  5. April 11, 2015

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  6. April 11, 2015

    Couldn’t agree more with this post, especially when it comes to timing! Everyone is different and works at a different pace :)

  7. April 13, 2015
    Lindsey says

    Thank goodness. I feel like I am always trying to explain this to friends & loved ones, but everyone is constantly trying to relate to or compare themselves to others. Very well said.

  8. April 28, 2015
    Kendall says

    I love everything about this post! When I finally let go and opened my heart, I met my true love and soon to be husband. You can’t fixate on rules or games; you have to do what’s best for you and your heart and believe that the right person will be there for you :)

  9. September 21, 2015
    Kristin says

    agree with this entire article! I have no desire or time for game playing!


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