There are a few different ways to look at “things to get rid of” – from emotional baggage to actual physical items. I know I have some of both that I’d like to leave behind in 2017. The new year is probably one of my favorite holidays and time of year because of the whole “fresh start” thing. For some reason, it makes me feel motivated to shed things from my life that are probably overdue – anyone else? Here are a few things we should all kick to the curb before ringing in 2018.
All those clothes that don’t fit
This is something that haunts most women. Maybe you lost some weight, maybe you gained some – either way it’s time to purge that closet and get rid of some things. I tend to hold onto clothes thinking that one day I’ll wear (or fit into) them again, but that day usually never comes. Cleaning out my closet makes me feel rejuvenated, so it’s a perfect thing to do at the end of the year. My rule of thumb (that I try to stick to) is if more than one season has gone by and I didn’t wear it, it’s time to go.
Guilt for not accomplishing all your goals
We all usually write an overwhelmingly long list of goals and resolutions for the new year – most of which we know we won’t actually do, but we write them anyway. If writing them down makes you feel good at the time, do it, but if it leads to you beating yourself up about it at the end of the year, stop. Don’t put energy into worrying about what you didn’t do in 2017. Instead, let it go and only focus on one or two things for 2018.
Bad health habits
This is something I really want to focus on in 2018. Not necessarily the classic “I want to lose weight” resolution, but more so just start taking my health goals more seriously. Whether I like it or not, I’m getting older (ugh), and eventually I have to start taking actions to achieve the health goals I’ve set for myself because right now the journey does not reflect the destination I have in mind, if you know what I mean.
Extra clutter around the house
I don’t even know how I acquire so much stuff throughout the year. There really is something to that whole minimalism movement that’s happening right now, though, because I always feel better when I have less clutter around my house. I guess it’s not only my closet that needs a good cleaning out. Think linen closets, your garage, your desk and paperwork, your makeup drawer, and under that bed!
Envy towards others
This is a big one. Whenever I feel myself letting my envy rear its ugly head I try to reel it in ASAP. Envy seems like something we should be able to suppress as adults, but unfortunately it doesn’t just turn off as soon as we reach a certain age. In fact, I think it can actually become worse the older we get because we find ourselves wanting what our friends and peers have (helloooo keeping up with the Joneses). In this case, it’s important to be mindful and thankful of what you do have. I usually find that talking to my sister – someone who can be brutally honest with me – snaps me right back to reality.
Whether you need to let go of your iPod from 2005 or start prioritizing your health, there’s no denying the new year is the ideal time to make the change.
What will you be getting rid of to start 2018 on the right foot?
Jacqueline Says
Like you, I see the winding down of the current year and the flip of the calendar page as a time of renewal. I have sufficient closet space but it could be better organized, and I really need to do a clothing purge. Like most women, I tend to wear the same things, so in the week after Christmas while I’m off work, I plan to spend a day taking everything out of the closet and deciding if it’s worth keeping. I’ll Poshmark the items that have good life left to them, and Goodwill the rest. I have a pretty small (but awesome!) place, so I already am very mindful of living with what I love and being really cautious about what I bring home. But of course, there are drawers and under the bed and linen closet shelves (so many beauty items!) that could stand a purge…and who knows, I might find something I bought a while ago that I never used…it will be like shopping in my closet! I could go on, but this pretty much sums up my main priority. Enjoy the holidays!
Asaake Says
I’m definitely working on overhauling my entire closet by the end of the year. So far I’m 70% done. This should hopefully allow me build my personal style in 2018
Anna Says
I completely agree with those. For me especially the cleaning of the closet applies, but more to items I never wear or things that are too worn out. I know I still hold on to piece I bought when I was 15 and even though it is very flattering they still fit me 9 years later, the state of the fabric and color isn’t that flattering. I also wish I could just snap out of my envy, I personally think that is one of my worst habits. Well, maybe I should make getting rid of it one of my 2018 goals!
Diana DeJonge Says
The bad health habits is probably the hardest. You set all these goals the recipes sound great buy new clothes for the gym but then where does the time go to actually achieve this goal. Im a twenty one year old don’t live at home anymore and constantly I set this goal for myself in an effort to change bad habits and constantly I find myself doing poorly at achieving my goal. What are some of your tips for staying on track with eating healthy and working out?
Linda Casper Says
Wish I had heeded this advice at your age. It’s never too late to start working towards them
Elissa Says
We’re currently working on overhauling our closets and our grocery lists for the upcoming year! Minimalizing and healthful eating are our goals for 2018 :)
Gemma Says
This seems like such a great way to start a fresh year with a clear mind and focussed intentions. I’m definitely giving your tips a try.
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reeree rockette Says
The clothing one is so hard! I gained weight and I’m still not completely ready to let go of the idea that I may return to my old size. Perhaps half way through the year!
Kay Says
Great post, so helpful and inspiring! Thanks for sharing <3
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Of Ashes & Bones Says
Love this list. An abstract bad things like bad habits and bad thoughts are as important to get rid like physical things to make more space for ourselves.