How to Turn Your Bedroom into Your Happy Place
posted on April 7, 2016 | by Amanda Holstein
When I was between the ages of five and ten, I used to wake up every morning and head straight to my parents bed. I would turn on the TV, eat my bowl of cereal, and even get dressed under the covers, until it was time to go to school.
Yup, that’s how much I love being in bed.
Which is why creating the perfect space is something I’m always striving for when it comes to my bedroom. And after a few years of trial and error, I think I’ve concocted the perfect recipe for creating a cozy bedroom and turning it into your happy place.
1. Soft Basics
I like my bed to feel (and look) like a cloud you just want to sink into. So I opt for a softer mattress — my new Cocoon by Sealy mattress is the perfect base for my cozy bed. On top of that, you need a light-as-air duvet to really get that cloud-like bed. Check out my previous post for more specific tips on choosing the right bedding basics!
2. Calming Colors
Next, choosing a calming color palette helps to create a relaxing environment. Personally, I find that various shades of whites & creams, as well as soft blue hues, are particularly calming. In general, cooler colors (blues, grays) tend to be more calming than warmer ones (reds, yellows).
3. Lots of Pillows
You can never have too many pillows. I mean, think about it. Who doesn’t want to jump in a bed and sink into a cloud of pillows?? Start with two (or three) large euro shams, add 2-4 standard pillows, then load on the throw pillows in various sizes. If you keep them all in the same color palette with varying prints and textures, you can’t go wrong.
4. Extra Blankets
A truly cozy bed always has layers and layers of blankets. There are so many options from a duvet to a coverlet, a quilt, or a throw! I always have an extra throw blanket or two on my bed to curl up in. Plus, they’re easier to swap out since it’s never really cold enough here to sleep with so many blankets :).
5. Relaxing Scents
The right scents can completely make your bedtime experience. I always have a candle (or two) next to my bed to light before I go to sleep. Thanks to my grandma, I also keep a bag of lavender in my nightstand. The calming scent helps me wind down at the end of a long day.
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Ashley Says
That headboard is gorgeous! What an inviting and welcoming space!
Megan Says
All of these are so true and I love your room! It would be my happy place too
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Eduarda Says
Love this post! And I feel the same. I used to watch Saturday morning cartoons with my parents in their bed and we would all have breakfast there. It’s such an important thing to get a nice, soothing and aesthetically pleasing space.
Great pictures! Xx
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Lena Says
Amanda, I’m in love with your gorgeous headboard! Where did you get it from? Your room looks so light and cozy, thanks for the peek inside :)
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Candace Says
I can’t help by release a deep sigh — that duvet is to DIE for! Thank you for providing more ammo for me to coerce the guy into allowing me to go nuts with pillows. :) Have any thoughts on using memory/foam pillows and how they fit into a cloudy, comforting bed?
Eris Says
I LOVE your headboard its so different and such a statement. very cute
Riley Nowlan Says
That headboard is amazing! I’m also going for a white and cream theme in my room and have been looking for the perfect headboard to add.
Thanks for sharing!
Riley
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Lauren Says
Any tips for places to purchase adorable throw pillows?
Taylor Says
I love your bedroom and these tips! Ever since I was a little girl I have been obsessed with all white bedding! It is definitely more relaxing and calming than bold patterns and colors.
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Claire Says
I love beds too, and especially making them super cosy. Love how you have styled yours – it is really gorgeous :)
Claire x
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Chelsea Moore Says
This is awesome!! I tried the extra pillow tip, and now it’s even harder to get out of bed in the morning! I loooooove the neutral colours!
xo
Kristine Says
Here recently, I’ve been trying to stay inside the whites and creams palate as well. They’re not only calming, they create an airy, clean, harmonious room, for me. Loved your tips! Cheers to a hundred more pillows! ;)
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Ramona Says
I have to agree on all of them (i only chose other colors, actually have my bedroom covered in blacks with a lot of faerie lights but need all of the pillows, blankets and scents <3
Diana Says
In love with your headboard! <3
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Lizzy L. Says
Great info. As an allergy sufferer, I opt for down alternative bedding, and I’ve never had a problem finding quality products.
Like others, I’d love to know where you bought your headboard! It’s so pretty.
Cortney | A Whimsy Wonderland Says
Love the second part just as much as the first! I’m alllll about the pillows. Big or small, you just can’t have too many! And I love having my diffuser in my room always!
Sophie Says
Your bedroom looks divine! In love with your sheets. So calming and cosy.
Emily Says
I’m currently redecorating my room. Love this! I do have a gold/silver comforter that I really like. But I also love the greys and whites!
Alysha Says
I love this post! My room is definitely my happy place as well, and these are some good tips! Just curious, where did you find your bedside table? I have been looking for one like that and not been able to find it!
Evelyn Thorne Says
I am in love with this room, the headboard is gorgeous! Really great tips. You can’t ever have enough pillows. ;)
Pam Says
Love the article. My bedroom is my sanctuary. Much needed advice. Sharing!!!
Samatha Says
You are the best! I want to stay in these rooms. Thank
Christopher A. Rainey Says
This is Great!!
I tried the extra pillow tip, and now it’s even harder to get out of bed in the morning! I love the neutral colours!
Thanks.
Michelle Henry Says
Great post! I agree that #1 on your list is a good mattress. Thanks for sharing.
Midnight Says
Great article. I’ve done some of the suggestions as you shared, they are very effective. However, I use essential oils instead of candles.