I’ve been in a major dating rut for over a year – I moved across the country to San Francisco by myself after graduating college, and around the same time my relationship ended. I’ve spent the better part of the past year focusing on my career, pursing my passions, and making friends. I’ve gone on the occasional date (3 since I moved, to be exact), but dating after college seems next to impossible.
I’ve tried being set up by friends, dating apps, going to fun events in the city, etc…but nothing has worked. The majority of guys I’ve met just seem immature and are still stuck in the college mentality of getting wasted every weekend and hooking up with multiple girls. It seems like all of the decent guys are taken or simply don’t exist.
I would love to hear any advice you have on dating after college and how to meet guys with similar interests and goals in life....